Category: Sex Blog

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Cum For Me – orgasm portraits

The moment of orgasm in both men and women captured by a photographer over a series of portraits. How many of us also look like this? link here 

No does not mean ‘convince me’

As anyone who has fumbled through a sexual encounter knows, real-life sex can be far more complicated than a poster declaring, “Consent is Sexy.” Many remain confused about what constitutes sexual consent, and talking about it in the moment can feel awkward.

The Amazing Evolution Of Animal Genitalia – TEDed

A wonderful video on how genitals have developed through evolution.

What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity

I’m not sure it’s possible to justify my liaisons with married men, but what I learned from having them warrants discussion. Not between the wives and me, though I would be interested to hear their side. No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the…
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How Much Is Too Much Porn?

There is no “normal” amount of pornography to consume. For example, in a 2008 study, 20% of college aged men in the United States reported viewing pornography either every day or every other day. 

Is Your Sexual Fantasy Normal?

A wonderful look at why we develop our sexual kinks!

A Photo History Of Male Affection

Male affection is making a comeback, but stigma is still strong around affection being ‘gay’ amongst men. This wasn’t always the case. Why is modern masculinity so threatened by affection?

Why Do Transgender Kids Raise Australia’s Hackles?

A wonderful article looking at why Transgender kids are such a controversial topic in Australia (and often the Western World)

Kinkphobia And Mental Health Professionals

Someone I know was once told by their psychologist that all their problems stemmed from their kink practice. I encouraged them to find a new practitioner.

Porn and Addiction

Very interesting link to a study on the guilt associated with a perceived porn addiction.